A new family moved into the house two months later.
The first week, the father knocked on my door.
“Hi. We’re next door.”
“I noticed.”
He laughed.
“We’re thinking about putting a shed near the fence.”
I immediately braced myself.
Then he said:
“I wanted to make sure you were okay with where we place it so we don’t block sunlight to your garden.”
I almost hugged him.
Instead, I said:
“Thank you for asking.”
Such a small sentence.
Thank you for asking.
That was all I had wanted from Vanessa for two years.
Ask.
Can I borrow the ladder?
Can I use the bin?
Can the kids cross the yard?
Can I plug in temporarily if my charger breaks?
Some answers might even have been yes.
The difference is that yes means nothing when no is not respected.
My electricity bill returned to normal.
The hose stayed on my side of the fence.
The garden fox went back beside the hydrangeas.
I considered repainting his scarf.
Then decided against it.
The faint white marks reminded me of something useful.
At sixty-two, I had not become mean.
I had not become petty.
I had simply learned that kindness without boundaries eventually starts looking like permission.
